The Story
Why it exists.
The beginning
DeMer Parfum Limited operates as an indie house from San Diego, founded in 2020, with a distinctive approach to fragrance naming. Gâteau Et Encens translates directly to "Cake and Incense", a deliberate paradox. The name sets up a tension that plays out in the composition itself. Rather than a straightforward gourmand, this fragrance threads smoke through sweetness from the very first moment, building something that resists easy categorization. The concept seems rooted in that specific kind of memory, a celebration that lingered too long, candles still burning in an empty room, frosting going stale on a plate no one finished. Deric Metzger built a fragrance around that particular bittersweet aftermath. The brief likely began with a story prompt: something about celebration and the hour after, about sweetness that doesn't quite resolve.
What makes Gâteau Et Encens unusual is its refusal to separate the gourmand from the smoky. Most fragrances that combine cake notes with incense treat them as sequential, dessert first, then the mysterious drydown. Here, the smoke arrives immediately, woven into the opening rather than saved as a reveal. That structural choice changes the entire experience. You're not eating cake and then smelling incense. You're smelling something that contains both simultaneously, the way a real memory might layer unexpected details. The frankincense and benzoin don't dominate the sweetness so much as interrupt it, brief wisps of smoke threading through frosting.
The evolution
The opening announces vanilla cake and sugar icing, immediately sweet, immediately edible. But the incense doesn't wait. From the first minute, smoke threads through the frosting like a candle left burning in a closed room. The sweetness is real; the smoke is realer. They arrive together and stay together. Within 30 minutes, the chocolate cake note emerges to deepen the gourmand warmth. Benzoin builds a thick, resinous warmth that turns the air sweet and slightly heavy. The frankincense smoke becomes more pronounced, not sharp, but present, a constant thread that prevents the composition from sliding into pure dessert. The red berries appear as a brief tartness, flickering in and out around the two-hour mark. They cut through the richness just enough to keep things interesting, a reminder that there's more here than sweetness and smoke. By hour three, the gourmand notes begin to recede. What remains is incense-forward: frankincense smoke and benzoin resin settling into the woody base.
Cultural impact
Gâteau Et Encens occupies an unusual position in the gourmand-adjacent space, it smells like cake without quite being a cake fragrance, because the smoke never lets you forget where you are. For wearers who find most sweet fragrances too one-dimensional, this dual character offers something worth exploring. The incense-smoke thread running through the sweetness gives it a complexity that rewards attention. It's not trying to be the loudest fragrance in the room. It's trying to be the one that lingers after you've left.























